I know my ex still has feelings and.....?

Yeah... I think he's definately using you as a back up. If things don't work out with him and the new guy, then he's got you. That's totally his mindset. He may want to get back with you too but is just waiting for you say it first, or just playing mind games. If you still like him, tell him. But be warned I think he's using you. And if yall do get back together, how do you know if he'll do the same thing he's doing to the other guy now or not? Be careful.

Will my face swell up or not?

My pony reared with me today and as I had no stirrups or reins, I was thrown forward and whacked the right hand side of my face on his neck but then my thoughts went a little. When he came back down I had a small nosebleed and my face has split a little just below my eye, and bruised along my cheekbone and it seemed to be huge, but when I got home it hadn't got that big. Will it get any bigger? I have school tomorrow, that's all! Thanks :)

My parents are driving me nuts!! HELP!!?

i am going to go to college soon and my parents still are holding the reins too tight. I feel like they are going to control me my whole life and i do not know what to do about it. if i go to a friends house to much they yell at me or if i have people over they yell at me while my little brother has his friends over every day all the time. my mom saw i was looking for a tattoo online and basically yelled at me saying i need to talk to her before i get it. i am 18 now and am so frustrated that i feel like running away sometimes. i don't talk to this about anyone except my sister because she knows how i feel. my mom doesnt let me do anything and it really bothers me. she is not going to be there when i go to college so i think she should let me go already. she is causing me to rebel. what to do. i honestly cant handle this anymore. this is seriously stressing me out i dont sleep or eat anymore. i am an indian girl and used to be fun and healthy looking. i used to weigh 112 but this stress has made me loose weight and now i am at 101. my parents dont think its a big deal but i have no idea what to do. for sleeping i tried everything i could do but nothing helps. i really need help it would be greatly appreciated.

Does this sentence make sense?

Rather than allow teens free rein of all the technology at their disposal, parents should set time limits.

Where to find a ASP.NET AJAX based chat component similar to facebook or gmail?

Hello Everyone. Looking for a ASP.NET chat component for my new site we need to launch soon. We are short on time so we rather not program this feature and want to look for a component already made. Our site is under development and not yet live. We need the chat to be similar to facebook and gmail in the placement and appearance so that it sits neatly in the right hand corner window with notification when someone comes online/offline. Database we are using is SQL Server 2008 so we need something that can use SQL session and also log messages in the database as well. Any suggestions as to where we can find something like this?

Horse is started to get irritated while riding?

I know what you're going thru, my 4 year old paint acts like that at times. Definitely go back to groundwork, the stubbornness can either be from not understanding your cues or she doesn't respect you and is being lazy. Try the lunging, then go back to riding and try again. If she still resists, try going back to something else she knows and work with that for a while. Also remember that horses have their bad days, so she just might be having hers. Or it might just be a mare thing.

Working my horse on the lunge?

my previous horse was just like this except was 13 would spook at anything and would just take off running as soo as you sent him away on the lunge, i put on a bridle, saddle, and an elastic training rein, and just practised lots for about 10-15 mins every other day! one day he just sort came into place and started working beautifully! x